Hi, I’m HEATHER.

I'm glad you're here.

I'm a musician, an artist, and a nurse — and a soul deeply devoted to walking with others through life's most tender transitions. My path has been winding — shaped by music, medicine, grief, and the ocean's pull.

I was raised in San Diego — the ocean was my first home. I studied vocal performance at a conservatory before my path led me through veterinary medicine and into nursing, where I've spent over a decade — from the urgency of the emergency room to the quiet intimacy of hospice.

Over time I found myself drawn toward a different kind of service — one that lives outside the healthcare system, closer to the ceremonial, the sacred, and the deeply human.

Death and grief have been intimate teachers in my life since I was very young. I've sat with many people through their dying — with the families who love them, and sometimes, with those who had no one at all. And what I've seen, again and again, is how fast it all moves. A diagnosis. A decline. A death. And then arrangements, and services, and everyone holding each other up while quietly falling apart. And in all of that, the moments that matter most — the conversations, the presence, the goodbye that actually feels like one — can simply slip by.

For several years I've been of service within sacred ceremonial spaces rooted in earth-based traditions and plant medicine — sitting with people in some of the most vulnerable and expansive experiences a human being can have. It's work that requires presence, integrity, and deep respect for what is seen and unseen. My teachers have trusted me in these spaces, and those experiences have shaped me profoundly.

My intention is always to bring comfort, peace, beauty, and even joy — yes, joy — to whatever has led you here.

My long-term vision is to create a retreat center for individuals and families navigating terminal diagnoses, grief, and life's most challenging passages — a safe, gentle place to pause, breathe, and reconnect before moving into whatever comes next.

Whether you are facing loss, walking with a loved one, or simply seeking more presence in your own life — I'm here. It is truly an honor to walk beside you.

With love,

Heather